Lillian Ingrassia Becker passed away peacefully on Saturday, May 23, 2026, at the age of 93 at The Pines in Catskill. Born on November 6, 1932, in Queens, New York, she was the beloved daughter of Sal and Auggie Ingrassia.

Lillian raised her family in Valley Stream, New York, where she worked at Becker Electronics while devotedly caring for her children. In 1968, she married Fred Becker and lovingly embraced a blended family that brought her much joy throughout her life. This brought her and the family to Greenville where she since resided.

Lillian is survived by her son Albert Becker and his wife Laura, as well as her extended and devoted family including Janet Clark, Denise Mulligan (Brian), Suzie Nadwodny, and Fred Becker (Sue).

She was predeceased by her loving daughter Kathy(Wayne) Nicholsen; stepdaughters Anne Myers and Patricia Linder; granddaughter Jennifer Zakovic; and her brother Frank Ingrassia.

She leaves behind 20 cherished grandchildren: Madisyn, Bethany, Ashley, Ryan, Kerry, Kyle, Jennifer, Tucker, Kelly, Chrissy, and many others who brought great joy and pride to her life. Although many of her grandchildren and family members lived far away, they always remained close to her heart, and she treasured every phone call, visit, photo, and memory shared with them. She was also blessed with 14 adored great-grandchildren and many nieces and nephews.

Her greatest joys in life were her family and the time spent together during holidays and celebrations. She will especially be remembered for hosting countless Christmas gatherings filled with love, laughter, and her wonderful cooking. Her granddaughter Madisyn Becker Collins and husband Casey, along with great-granddaughter Everly, held a very special place in her heart.

Lillian was deeply devoted to her faith and community. She was one of the co-founders of the Greene County Women’s League. She treasured her faith and was an active member of St. Mary’s Church, where she served as a Eucharistic Minister. She also volunteered as a “Pink Lady” at Catskill and St. Peter’s Hospitals and was a proud member of the Catholic Daughters of the Americas.

Lillian will be remembered for her warm heart, unwavering faith, generous spirit, and the love she gave so freely to family and friends. She leaves behind a legacy of kindness, strength, and devotion that will continue to live on through all who knew and loved her.

In lieu of flowers please make donations to Greene County Women League, P.O. Box 341 Round Top NY 12473 or at https://greenecountywomensleague.com/.

A Funeral Liturgy will be offered on Friday, May 29, 2026, at 11 a.m. at Our Lady of Knock Shrine, Route 145 in East Durham, NY with burial to immediately follow at the family plot in St. Patrick's Cemetery, Catskill.

Care has been entrusted to AJ Cunningham Funeral Home and condolences may be left at www.ajcunninghamfh.com.